Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Terror

How many of us spend our free hours reading books filled with fictional monsters, feeling chills creep up our spines and finding ourselves turning on the lights to chase away those dark shadows that hide our nightmares?  Unfortunately it seems reality, though, is often more terrifying than any work of fiction could ever hope to be. 

I just got finished reading about a young girl who's family kept her imprisoned in the basement, sexually assaulted her, starved, beat, and abused her since the age of 10.  She is now 15.  If this is not a tale of true terror then I don't know what qualifies.   As a society we forget sometimes that the monsters aren't hiding in the shadows of the supernatural, they are right here within us.  I can't claim to have any understanding of what makes a group of people (a father, mother, and stepbrother in this case) believe that the things they do to another human being are justifiable.

Furthermore, in this case especially, I am disgusted and horrified by our legal system.  According to Yahoo news the parents in this case are only facing up to 11 years in prison whereas the stepbrother, who sexually assaulted the girl is facing 68 years.  Granted sexual assault is a terrible crime, but aren't the parents even more guilty?  After all, the abuse program started when the girl was 10, making the stepbrother 13.  After watching the parents force the girl to do her chores naked, lock her in the basement like an animal, force her to eat her own feces, beat her, starve her, and mentally abuse her while the brother was treated like a prince, don't you think it might make him think it was okay for him to do the same?  Personally I think these "parents" ought to be locked up in a basement for the rest of their lives.  After all, violators of the Geneva Conventions regulations on torturing enemy combatants during times of military conflict are faced with stronger consequences than these two monsters are!

Friday, February 17, 2012

Mom of the Year Award

So, I am nominating myself for the Mom of the Year award for the simple reason that my baby girl began saying "Thank you, You're welcome," and, "I love you!"  Granted she has also learned the meaning of, "mine!" but this is inconsequential in the grand scope of learning manners!  Love being a mommy!

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

My own worst enemy

So...I distinctly remember telling everyone I know, and myself, that no way was I going to spoil my child.  That I would use the word "NO" often, and never go overboard with toy buying or allow the baby's toys to become my main source of home decor.  Yeah...so...turns out all my fears of my daughter crying and pointing at toys and such in the stores should never have been my primary concern.  My concern should have been me and my love of shopping!

Turns out it is so much easier for me to justify a purchase if it is for my daughter instead of myself!  WTF?  So not only does she now have too many clothes to wear before she outgrows them, but she'd got TONS of toys, some of which aren't even age appropriate yet!  I think I need an intervention.  Seriously...